They Always Come Back

Are you suffering from a post-break up situation? Is it bad? Has he not called you or texted you back...in days? Did you do something crazy or unforgiveable? Or worse, unforgettable? Well, I've got great news! They ALWAYS come back. "Impossible", you say, "You have no idea how ugly I've made it, ect". I don't care, they always come back and if you can realize that and accept that, then you can redeem yourself and end this painful heartbreak. I can't pinpoint exactly, but I can give you a ballpark. One day up to one year. I've never experienced any longer than a year and I promise you, I've done some pretty crazy, wicked, unforgiveable, unforgettable crap, yet, it was forgiven and it was forgotten and somehow I always end up back on top. It's exactly where I wanted to be the moment "he" decided he was deleting me out of "his" life for "good". I promise you, the quicker you can tell yourself "They always come back" and believe it, the quicker the douche bag actually comes back. Still not convinced? Need some examples? Ok:)

Example #1
Relationship: Serious, Off and On
I was head over heels for this handsome, smart, brown eyed boy. To the point it made me crazy...CRAZY. Some days he wanted me, most days he didn't. He mainly wanted me for sex. I would blow up his phone with texts and calls, once I called him 72 times in less than 2 hours. Another time, I called him so much he was just forwarding my calls to his voicemail, so I would scrape the phone on the wall for about a minute, then hang up and do it again. I broke into his voicemail once and would secretly screen all of his messages (deleting the ones I didn't feel he NEEDED to hear) I did the whole creating fake profiles to get on his and his little girlfriends social networks, I slept with his best friend, I'd drive by his apartment at night, I'd befriend any new girl and convince her to dump him, ect. It was bad. I did this to him for 3 years. He was my obsession and I wasn't happy unless he was miserable. He would freak out on me here and there (which I would be pleased, because any attention was better than no attention) and the final straw? I had been invited over to his apartment for a booty call, followed by the next morning him throwing my shit out in the hallway telling to leave. It hurt. I drove home crying my eyes out and I said to myself, "One day, he is going to want me back and I won't give a shit!" The day came (in less than 6months), he called me over and purposed to me, saying no one ever loved him like I did. That was almost 3 years ago...He is still begging for me back. THEY ALWAYS COME BACK!

Example #2
Relationship: It wasn't one if you asked him.
We'll call him Mark. I had met him at a little furniture store in a small, but up-coming town. He had beautiful blue eyes and a great sense of humor. Our first date and I knew I wanted to marry him. He was my ideal dream guy. But unfortunately, the feelings were far from mutual. After our first kiss, he just couldn't bare the idea of us being an item. He would however want to see me about everyday and I found it all very confusing, but when he'd see me, he'd remind me we were just friends and nothing more. On his behalf, if we did have sex, it was me always initiating it, so I can't say I was a booty call by any means. I can say he enjoyed my company and that was it. But even my company, became to much for him. He frankly told me I wasn't his type. I was too short, not pretty enough, had freckles, had kids, ect. My esteem was shot. As much as I believed in my own advice, I wasn't sure this one would actually come back. 9 months later I get a random text from him asking to see me. At this point, what feelings I had were gone and my attention was else where, so I politely declined and his reply to that? "I think you were the one I let slip away..." Yep, they always come back!

Those are just examples, I really could list allot more. I gave you those two stories so you could see I have been rejected for being crazy and for not even having "appeal", but they both came back as have all the others. The ones I was serious with, the ones I wasn't. Their come backs come in many forms; E.g., texts, emails, front door steps, whatever. And personally, from my experience, the crazier you were...the better. You want to be unforgettable. I wouldn't trash his car or hit him over the head with a bat, but I think its ok to be a little emotionally dramatic. As long as you put yourself back together before he returns and by doing that, when he does (which he will) you will once again have the ball back in your court. Just like you did the day you met (cause girls always have it at first, we just give it away for some stupid reason). Hope this little blog helped you fell better and best of wishes!
Starlyn